About
Helping Tech Professionals Break Free From Anxiety and Unlock Bold, Focused Action
I’m Gerald Dobin, a coach dedicated to empowering tech professionals to overcome anxiety and unlock their full potential. My journey has taught me that success starts with a rewired way of being, and I’m here to guide you through it.
Together, we’ll break your subconscious negative patterns, reclaim confidence, and transform your fears into lasting courage and action.
"Gerald has a gift for asking the right questions and gently guiding toward solutions, making every session an opportunity for deeper clarity and authentic growth."
My Philosophy
"Gerald has a gift for asking the right questions and gently guiding toward solutions, making every session an opportunity for deeper clarity and authentic growth."
Unlock The Transformation Within
Every person already holds the answers they need within themselves. My role is to help you uncover those answers, not by imposing solutions, but by guiding you to connect with yourself on a deeper level.
Many of us have inner “teams” or parts working with outdated programming or pulling in different directions. This misalignment creates blocks and frustration. By aligning these parts, we unlock transformation.
Therapy often stops at the intellectual level, while the deepest beliefs are stored in the body.
Heal the Root Causes of Emotional Patterns
Emotions, thoughts, and actions are rooted in beliefs. Often, those beliefs were learned at a specific point in your life, usually as a survival mechanism for something you faced.
What most people don’t realize is that these beliefs don’t always live in the mind, they can be stored in the body itself. That’s why understanding something intellectually is only the first step. Therapy often stops there, focusing on analyzing and labeling the problem.
Transformation That Goes Beyond the Mind
This work isn’t about intellectualizing your challenges. It’s about engaging your body, allowing it to do what it instinctively knows how to do. The body holds onto emotions, patterns, and traumas long after your mind has moved on.
Through integration, especially the deeper work, we bring these parts back into harmony, often through movements or processes that don’t make sense to the conscious mind, but that create profound, lasting shifts.
My Philosophy
Therapy often stops at the intellectual level, while the deepest beliefs are stored in the body.
Unlock The Transformation Within
Every person already holds the answers they need within themselves. My role is to help you uncover those answers, not by imposing solutions, but by guiding you to connect with yourself on a deeper level.
Many of us have inner “teams” or parts working with outdated programming or pulling in different directions. This misalignment creates blocks and frustration. By aligning these parts, we unlock transformation.
Heal the Root Causes of Emotional Patterns
Emotions, thoughts, and actions are rooted in beliefs. Often, those beliefs were learned at a specific point in your life, usually as a survival mechanism for something you faced.
What most people don’t realize is that these beliefs don’t always live in the mind, they can be stored in the body itself. That’s why understanding something intellectually is only the first step. Therapy often stops there, focusing on analyzing and labeling the problem.
Transformation That Goes Beyond the Mind
This work isn’t about intellectualizing your challenges. It’s about engaging your body, allowing it to do what it instinctively knows how to do. The body holds onto emotions, patterns, and traumas long after your mind has moved on.
Through integration, especially the deeper work, we bring these parts back into harmony, often through movements or processes that don’t make sense to the conscious mind, but that create profound, lasting shifts.
My Approach
One client realized that small shifts in their approach, which we uncovered using techniques like State Shifting and Future Pacing, had a ripple effect on their entire performance.
Tailored to You. Grounded in Results.
I adapt my methods based on your unique challenges and goals. For deeper, transformational work, I often use parts integration to align your inner world on both a cognitive and somatic level.
For specific challenges, I draw on a variety of tools, such as:
- Future Pacing to step into the reality you want to create.
- State Shifting to access new insights and perspectives.
- Somatic Practices to engage the body for integration and emotional release.
- Visualization to bring clarity and direction to your goals.
Every session incorporates techniques that go beyond talking about challenges. We work with your subconscious, allowing it to process what your mind might not even understand.
My Approach
One client realized that small shifts in their approach, which we uncovered using techniques like State Shifting and Future Pacing, had a ripple effect on their entire performance.
Tailored to You. Grounded in Results.
I adapt my methods based on your unique challenges and goals. For deeper, transformational work, I often use parts integration to align your inner world on both a cognitive and somatic level.
For specific challenges, I draw on a variety of tools, such as:
- Future Pacing to step into the reality you want to create.
- State Shifting to access new insights and perspectives.
- Somatic Practices to engage the body for integration and emotional release.
- Visualization to bring clarity and direction to your goals.
Every session incorporates techniques that go beyond talking about challenges. We work with your subconscious, allowing it to process what your mind might not even understand.
What to Expect
Clients often share how our sessions unlock deeper internal shifts than they’ve ever experienced before, empowering them to envision and step into the confident leader they aspire to be.
Forward momentum, not just reflection or acceptance
Our sessions are tailored to the challenge at hand. Some days, we’ll dig deep into alignment and integration, creating profound shifts.
Other days, we’ll focus on practical tools and actions to help you tackle specific challenges.
Regardless of the approach, you’ll leave each session with actionable insights, a clear direction, and often, a renewed sense of energy.
This isn’t therapy. We won’t focus on analyzing the past, instead we’ll focus on moving forward and making progress. My style is adaptable, I bring intensity and drive when needed, but I’m also compassionate and careful when we’re navigating sensitive territory.
Who I Work With
transformation through courage and commitment
I work with people who:
- Are willing to face discomfort to achieve lasting transformation.
- Value direct, action-oriented guidance combined with compassionate support.
- Want both practical results and deeper personal alignment.
Honesty is essential in our work together. The more open you are, the more effective our sessions will be. I’ve faced plenty of hard truths myself, so I approach your journey without judgment, only curiosity and care.
Why Choose Me
authenticity backed by experience
I’m not just a coach, I’m someone who’s walked this path. Every tool I use has been tested and refined through my own experience. I know the terrain because I’ve navigated it myself, and I’ll guide you with the same instincts and strategies that have transformed my own life. This isn’t just a job for me, it’s a daily practice. I’m here to help you create real, lasting change, not just insights.
why i do this
For Most Of My Life, Fear Controlled Everything.
At my worst I didn't want to keep living.
Fear of success. Fear of failure. Fear of being too much, taking up space, or going after anything I really wanted. It didn’t just hold me back in my career, it wrecked my personal life too. I couldn’t set boundaries. I was constantly scared of disappointing people. And at my worst, I didn’t want to keep living.
Fear of success. Fear of failure. Fear of being too much, taking up space, or going after anything I really wanted. It didn’t just hold me back in my career, it wrecked my personal life too. I couldn’t set boundaries. I was constantly scared of disappointing people. And at my worst, I didn’t want to keep living.
Over the past decade, I’ve dedicated myself to deep, transformative work to overcome that fear. Honestly? I had no choice. I applied not just therapy, but also energy work, psychedelics, and other advanced methods, and while these things helped me along the way, the real breakthroughs came when I discovered how to rewire myself.
I no longer rely on external tools or anyone else to shift my programming, I’ve developed methods that allow me to create lasting change on my own. Fear is just the symptom. The key is to eliminate fear at the source and live with the freedom and confidence that brings.
On my journey I’ve pushed myself to do things I never thought I could. I became a mechanical engineer, landed a job at a top tech company, and even bootstrapped a business with just $100, scaling it to thousands in revenue within weeks.
That same transformation is what I offer to others. I know what it’s like to feel trapped by your own mind, and I know how to break free. If you’re ready to take back control and finally live for yourself, I’m here to help.
I Had No Choice But to Change
I spent years and thousands of dollars applying different therapies, psychedelics, energy work, and more.
Over the past decade, I’ve dedicated myself to deep, transformative work to overcome that fear. Honestly? I had no choice. I applied not just therapy, but also energy work, psychedelics, and other advanced methods, and while these things helped me along the way, the real breakthroughs came when I discovered how to rewire myself.
Learning How to Change My Inner Reality Saved My Life
I finally discovered methods that work.
I no longer rely on external tools or anyone else to shift my programming, I’ve developed methods that allow me to create lasting change on my own. Fear is just the symptom. The key is to eliminate fear at the source and live with the freedom and confidence that brings.
Now I Help Others Break Free
I've become a mechanical engineer, switched careers to tech and bootstrapped an online business from $100 to five figures in 4 months.
Coaching isn't a business to me, it's my passion.
On my journey I’ve pushed myself to do things I never thought I could. I became a successful mechanical engineer, changed careers and landed a job at a top tech company, and even bootstrapped a business with just $100, scaling it to thousands in revenue within weeks.
That same transformation is what I offer to others. I know what it’s like to feel trapped by your own mind, and I know how to break free. If you’re ready to take back control and finally live for yourself, book a clarity call, it’s free.
What’s holding you back from living the life you want?
why i do this
For Most Of My Life, Fear Controlled Everything.
At my worst I didn't want to keep living.
Fear of success. Fear of failure. Fear of being too much, taking up space, or going after anything I really wanted. It didn’t just hold me back in my career, it wrecked my personal life too. I couldn’t set boundaries. I was constantly scared of disappointing people. And at my worst, I didn’t want to keep living.
I Had No Choice But to Change
I spent years and thousands of dollars applying different therapies, psychedelics, energy work, and more.
Over the past decade, I’ve dedicated myself to deep, transformative work to overcome that fear. Honestly? I had no choice. I applied not just therapy, but also energy work, psychedelics, and other advanced methods, and while these things helped me along the way, the real breakthroughs came when I discovered how to rewire myself.
Learning How to Change My Inner Reality Saved My Life
I finally discovered methods that work.
I no longer rely on external tools or anyone else to shift my programming, I’ve developed methods that allow me to create lasting change on my own. Fear is just the symptom. The key is to eliminate fear at the source and live with the freedom and confidence that brings.
Now I Help Others Break Free
I've become a successful mechanical engineer, switched careers to tech and bootstrapped an online business from $100 to five figures in 4 months.
Coaching isn't a business to me, it's my passion.
On my journey I’ve pushed myself to do things I never thought I could. I became a mechanical engineer, landed a job at a top tech company, and even bootstrapped a business with just $100, scaling it to thousands in revenue within weeks.
That same transformation is what I offer to others. I know what it’s like to feel trapped by your own mind, and I know how to break free. If you’re ready to take back control and finally live for yourself, book a clarity call, it’s free.
"Working together has significantly improved how I manage stress and approach decision making. I now feel more grounded and confident in making smarter choices, even in challenging situations."
"Working together has significantly improved how I manage stress and approach decision making. I now feel more grounded and confident in making smarter choices, even in challenging situations."
training
Training and Certifications
My real credibility comes from the transformations I’ve helped my clients achieve, but I’ve also completed training and certifications from respected organizations to ensure I bring the best tools and techniques to every session.
training
Training and Certifications
My real credibility comes from the transformations I’ve helped my clients achieve, but I’ve also completed training and certifications from respected organizations to ensure I bring the best tools and techniques to every session.
client success stories
You're In The Right Place
- You know you’re capable of more, but second-guessing and procrastination keep getting in the way.
- You’re searching for clarity, confidence, and control, but it feels like you’re stuck in a loop of doubt and indecision.
- You’ve worked hard to achieve what you have, but rejection still shakes your confidence.
- You’ve tired therapy, and while it’s helped you understand your circumstances, you’re ready to stop analyzing and start taking action to change them.
fun facts
Behind The Scenes: Fun Facts About Me
- I moved to a country where I didn’t speak the language and learned Spanish through total immersion, mostly by messing up a lot at first!
- I’ve been diving into dance classes recently and might just be the next backup dancer for Shakira. Watch this space.
- I can fix a car engine thanks to my background in mechanical engineering. Not exactly a skill I use daily as a coach, but it’s cool to know!
- I have a weirdly good knack for creating memes. Yes, memes can be a business tool!
- I used to fear success, thinking life would punish me if I got too happy. Coaching helped me flip that script.
- I once explored the streets of Puno, Peru, at night while listening to spooky stories, feeling like a mix between Indiana Jones and a ghostbuster.
fun facts
Behind The Scenes: Fun Facts About Me
- I moved to a country where I didn’t speak the language and learned Spanish through total immersion, mostly by messing up a lot at first!
- I’ve been diving into dance classes recently and might just be the next backup dancer for Shakira. Watch this space.
- I can fix a car engine thanks to my background in mechanical engineering. Not exactly a skill I use daily as a coach, but it’s cool to know!
- I have a weirdly good knack for creating memes. Yes, memes can be a business tool!
- I used to fear success, thinking life would punish me if I got too happy. Coaching helped me flip that script.
- I once explored the streets of Puno, Peru, at night while listening to spooky stories, feeling like a mix between Indiana Jones and a ghostbuster.